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March 17, 2008

How To Lower the Stress Your Baby Experiences, and Lower the Risk of Mental Illness

Research over the past ten years indicates that ongoing or significant stress experienced by children (during pregnancy, infancy and childhood) can have a significant influence on risk for future mental illnesses (read more here and here).

Additionally - studies have shown that mothers who are anxious and depressed during pregnancy are more likely to have children that have difficult time sleeping - and thereby potentially pass on the stress (and the predisposition to more serious illnesses later in life) to the child. Research has shown that during infancy "sleep ranks as one of the most highly regarded indexes of healthy development, and plays a critical role in consolidating memory and facilitating learning, regulating metabolism and appetite, promoting good moods and sustaining both cardiovascular health and a vigorous immune function."

“This problematic sleep is notable; it may be part of the reason why mood-disturbed pregnancies are linked to children’s behavioral disorders, like depression, hyperactivity and anxiety, later on down the road.”

Because of these issues, groups interested in child welfare are working to educate parents about the importance of making efforts to keep their own stress low (as well as avoid or minimize anxiety and depression - which are some of the most stressful experiences for a person), learning coping skills for stress, making special efforts to keep baby's stresses low and to pass coping skills on to their babies and children.

PBS (Public Broadcasting Service) has recently covered some good tactics for helping babies minimize their stress. Here is a brief excerpt. We encourage you to read the full information at the links provided below:

"Kids learn how to handle stress by watching you.
When your kids see you stressing out, they may stress out too. They learn from the people around them. If you take a breath, have a stretch or laugh a little, your baby will see you coping with stress in a positive way, and your kids will learn positive ways to cope with stress from your example. (see related information on "expressed emotion" )

What is stress, anyway?
When you feel anxious or in danger, your body produce stress hormones, such as cortisol. These hormones cause physical changes in your body. You might get sweaty palms, experience rapid or shallow breathing, feel like your heart is pounding and experience loss (or increase) of appetite.

Babies experience stress too!
Babies experience stress when their needs are not met. They tend to cry when they are hungry, need to be changed or are getting too much or too little attention. Not attending to a crying baby can cause your baby to feel stress. [For these reasons its important to try to respond quickly, lovingly and responsively to your infant's needs.]

Babies need your help learning to calm down.
Babies aren’t born knowing how to handle stress because their brains are still developing. That’s why babies need help from grownups in calming down. Research shows that babies whose cries are soothed quickly tend to cry less, not more. Don’t worry — responding to your baby’s cries does not train him to cry just to get your attention.

Teaching young babies how to calm down helps as they grow up.
You can’t protect your baby from everything that causes stress. But you can soothe him. And that, in turn, teaches him how to soothe himself. This skill will help your baby throughout his life. Don’t assume that letting a baby handle stress on his own, or crying it out, will make him a tougher or more resilient adult. (for more information on this see: Childcare Factors in Mental Health)

Pregnant women concerned about how their own mood-disturbance may harm their unborn baby’s sleeping habits, development and emotional health may want to consider psychological treatment. Several evidence-based therapies exist -- including cognitive behavioral therapy -- and unlike medication, none of them are suspect in the least for causing adverse effects to baby. “Given prenatally, psychological interventions could instill a whole host of benefits that may carry-over to the child,”.

PBS - Soothing the Stress

PBS - Parenting Tips for Infants and Young Children

A Good Training Video for New Parents on How To Calm Babies (based on new research):
The Happiest Baby on the Block - The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Baby Sleep Longer (DVD)

A Good Book on Parenting Young Children (there is also a DVD):
The Happiest Toddler on the Block: The New Way to Stop the Daily Battle of Wills and Raise a Secure and Well-Behaved One- to Four-Year-Old

Additional Reading:

How Families Can Nurture Resilient Children

Tips to Lower the Risk of Mental Illness in Your Child, Prevent Schizophrenia

Low Stress During Pregnancy Good for Healthy Brain Development

Child and Teen Brains Very Sensitive to Ongoing Stress

Stressed Parents make their Children Sick (BBC, March 2008)

Studies Show How Stress Damages Young Brains

Childcare, Genetics, Epigenetics and Schizophrenia

Higher Anxiety and Stress During Pregnancy Results in Smaller Babies


Comments

If that's right what about us mums in the past who knew nothing about stress when we had our babies 20 odd years ago. Small consolation and just adds to mothers guilt feelings and how does it help our suffering offspring now?

Posted by: sheila at April 7, 2008 04:22 AM

I think the saying "children don't do as you say, they do as you do" comes to mind here. To teach children to be calm you have to show them how to be calm.

Posted by: Jake at April 8, 2008 08:13 AM

Yes that's true but the study says mothers' stress affect babies in the womb. They can't see you being calm then, can they?
That's why I say it's too late for thousands of us to find this out years later and add to our guilt and distress if we had a bad time during pregnancy.

Posted by: sheila at April 8, 2008 08:54 AM

Sheila,

You can't blame your self or any other mother about research done in 2008 - when you had your child in the decades earlier. Science is always moving forward - no parent could possibly do everything right, or know everything - its simply impossible. So every parent is, and always will be (as long as science continues to progress) more knowledgeable later in life compared to earlier in life.

The important thing is simply to learn from the latest research and try to apply it in your life for your benefit, your childrens and grandchildren's benefit and your extended family and friends's benefit.

This is just one factor in mental illness - and its still impossible to tell if a child has the biological/genetic predisposition (thought a family history is know known to be a good predictor of this). The fact that some children are more sensitive to stress is only recently becoming common knowledge. Its not any parent's "fault" if they don't know something - nobody has the time and expertise to know everything about child development and biology. Nobody is a perfect parent. Its inappropriate to feel guilt at not knowing everything - because nobody does.

Posted by: SzAdmin at April 9, 2008 01:54 PM

i have a one year old daughter and I can tell that she gets scared when ever i yell or argue with my husband

Alycia

Posted by: at May 12, 2008 10:05 PM

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