Not My Son: Super Kid

August 02, 2004

Super Kid

There is my son just about begining to cope with normal life,trying very hard to fit in and on the other hand is my daughter a "super kid" who got brilliant results,was admitted into the best college and course,doing a million things simultaneously,madly busy and some what hyper.Determined in her heart to do the best,aching at many places, at having lost a brother she had looked up to and for never having experienced fatherly comfort and love.
I snap at her many times. on time scheduling, on taking it slow, we have many arguments, sometimes nasty.I wish her to spend more time with her brother,I wish she would include him in her social outings.She doesnt unless Iam there.Am I expecting too much?
Her conversations with him sometimes border on the motherly which irritates him,she is unable to strike a balance.Perhaps Iam being too demanding after all she is only 17.
Or perhaps I must strictly schedule at least one day a week when we can all go out together for a meal and just chat.
What will work I really dont know?
And then my son is moving rapidly into catching up with old friends and Iam so frighhtened that very soon they will distance themselves from him.So many fears .

Posted by Monica at August 2, 2004 05:37 AM | TrackBack

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wait for time to take its course, there has to be motion to bring a balance...

Posted by: puzli at August 3, 2004 10:32 AM

u dont even have to wait for time, just go with its flow...

Posted by: puzli at August 3, 2004 10:32 AM

Puzli rightly said that let time to take its flow. U cannot make anybody including ur daughter to strict as per ur wishes even if U are right. Yes U can always explain her but never expect.In my opinion let ur son be with his friends but never disclose the disease name. U can always say that he needs some treatment or counsilling. I have visited lot of care camps, really situation is very pity. Sz is serious what aware non awareness has made it worse. we cannot chnage society. but we can change. when we will be more and more than at least a part of sociaety will change. best wishes

Posted by: nick at August 10, 2004 04:30 PM

as the sister of a 23 year old schizophrenic, I would say that the more you can emphasize friendly relations between them, with necessarily placing such a huge responsibility on her for taking care of her brother, it should be ok. be mindful that if you put her in that caretaking position too much, she might be resentful (I know a little something about that), but if you can facilitate your kids becoming friends, then you have done them both a service.

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